Pink and Carey Hart...Welcome Baby Girl

 

Pop rebel Pink and husband of four years Carey Hart welcomed their first child, a girl, Willow Sage Hart, in the early hours of this morning.

What Men Really Want In A Woman

 

 What Men Really Want In A Woman:

1. Confidence
Men want a women who doesn’t (not to be confused with want) need anyone to tell her she’s amazing. They are looking for the girl who doesn’t care about past relationships or get insecure about female friends.

2. Independence
Guys like a lady who can, if necessary, stand on her own. While most men take pride in financially supporting their women, they also like to feel like they have a complementing partner.

3. Emotional Stability
Crazy is not cute. Just ask Halle Berry. Men are turned off by emotionally needy women. No guy wants to walk around on eggshells all day just to keep you from crying.

4. Wit
Men like women who can keep up with them on an intellectual and comedic level. It’s not so much about your formal education as it is your ability to translate lecture material into clever conversation

5. Class
There is a reason some loud, boisterous women are single. Whether we like it or not, men wear their women. Our appearance and behavior is representative of them. Men like a woman who knows how to act like a lady, in the traditional sense.

6. Domestication
It’s in a man’s nature to want to be nurtured; and they like women who cook and clean—sort of like a June Cleaver 2.0.

7. Spontaneity
Try living on a whim every once in a while. Unpredictability and adventure keep you exciting and guys like a girl who’s up for anything.

8. Healthy-looking Physique
Men go ga-ga over the bodies of women in music videos and on magazines. They want a woman whose body appears to be in decent shape with more muscle than adipose tissue. Men are visual!!

9. Discernment
Guys don’t like to talk about their feelings as much as women, especially during the playoffs. Know when and when not to pester him with discussions about the relationship and your feelings. They appreciate a woman who can identify when to shut up.

3 Reasons You Can't Hold A Relationship

 

 3 Reason You Can't Hold A Relationship:

You chose what was available, not what was healthy

You may find yourself in the repeated circumstance of choosing men that happen to be in your gym, your work, your school, your area, and just men who are there for “being there” sake. If you date what ever’s available, as opposed to seeking what’s healthy, you'll end up with more than a few tears on your pillow at night.

He’s protecting you from himself

Sometimes, it’s just not personal with relationships. Sometimes, your pattern may be that you choose men who find you incredible and amazing, but know that they’re not worth your mind, body and soul. As a favor to you, they won’t foster a relationship with you. Relationships are all about matching your gifts to the right man’s gift. If you fail to do so, you will wind up with someone who can’t–and won’t–keep a relationship with you.

You’re too scared of letting him go
As you can see above, when a man who isn’t right for you fails to keep a relationship with you–that’s a good thing. But, some women are so desperate for a relationship, they send every indication to the man they’re seeing, that they can’t let him go. They suffocate him, they forgive him for unforgivable transgressions, and they puppy around, hoping that he will stay forever. That energy of clinginess, suffocation, fear of independence and inability to let go, can trigger all sorts of panic neurons in a man’s body. So, if you want him to stay, stand up for yourself politely and strongly, don’t have his child after two months–or as a “tactic,” check his dysfunctional behaviors without getting loud and boisterous, and be thoroughly unafraid to let him go, if he acts the fool. Given that premise, he will not only think twice about acting the fool around you, he will also be more comfortable keeping a relationship with you.

5 Unhealthy Things Women Often Do For Love

 

Five Unhealthy Things Women Often Do For Love:

1. Give up our identity

Are you the type of women that falls off the radar with friends or abandons your career/hobbies as soon as you fall in love? Not a good move. One of the most unhealthy things you can do for love is abandon what makes you you. That’s what made a man fall for you. And that’s what’s going to keep you whole if the love ever leaves.

2. Try to “work with” a man

This is another unhealthy thing women do for love. We try to work with a man that isn’t worth the time, effort, or love. Have you ever dealt with a man that claimed to love you, but then continually disrespected you and the relationship by his behavior? Women need to accept that some men have no sense of integrity or character. And they will say and even do anything to get what they want from a woman that they know loves them. Men like this do not love you.

3. Have sex to create love

Sometimes women choose to have sex with a man because we think it will strengthen the bond and magically manifest love. The reality is that men can have sex without attachment. That is not the case for women. Recognize and accept that. Love is love, and sex is sex. And it’s not healthy to make love to a man while he’s just having sex with you.

4. Avoid setting standards

I know numerous women that make remarks like “I love him and I know he loves me, so I don’t need him to make a commitment.” Basically what these women are saying is this: I don’t really love myself so I’m fulfilled with whatever “love” he’s giving me. And if I can recognize that, then the man you supposedly “love” can most definitely recognize it as well. It’s not healthy to avoid having a basic set of relationship standards. When a woman has standards it’s because she loves and values herself. And you will never truly find love until you first love yourself.

5. Ignore red flags

What’s another unhealthy thing women do for love? We put aside all logic. And one way we do this is by ignoring red flags. Sometimes the red flags are tiny, like if a man tells endless and unnecessary little white lies. And sometimes the red flags are as subtle as a flying brick upside our head. In either case, we ignore the red flag(s) because we think we’re in love. Not a healthy move. When a man subtly or overtly reveals himself to be a certain type of individual, believe it! Do not ignore red flags all in the name of love.