No, she’s not the lady who dwells in a house, she’s the lady who dwells on the past, dwells on the “issues,” dwells on every wrong part of the relationship–particularly when she hasn’t even been “wronged.” She’s the lady who won’t let go of the fact that there are socks on the floor, even during Thanksgiving dinners, and who’ll nag a man till his ears fall off, for no real reason at all.
Sure some reprimand is necessary when dealing with man-creatures, but the dweller never makes enough time for a good time. She’d much rather pout and nag all day. Men avoid this woman.
2. The Golddigger
This category of the ‘gold-digging’ woman may be easy to guess on this list. But, it may be very difficult for some of you women to realize when you have gold-digging traits.
Many assume that a gold-digging woman has to be a “trifling skank” who looks the part, with designer earrings and handbags and an obvious groupie orientation. But, men can also tell a gold-digger by observing when a woman shows interest in him.
If you’re the kind of woman who only calls, likes, or shows interest in a man when he’s at the topmost of his game–yet you’re ghost when he’s broke–you might be a gold-digger…and he can see right through you.
3. Madame TOO Dependent
She can’t think on her own, and needs his every approval. She’s Madame Way-Too-Dependent, and men avoid her like the plague. While men love women who show that they need them, they tend to approach overly dependent women with caution. In this post-recession economy, when everyone needs to have her thinking cap on, many men have calculated that they can’t afford the liability of a woman who “can’t breathe” without them. That “I-can’t-breathe-without-you” concept only works in R & B songs. Back up a little, and give dude his space.
4. Madame TOO Independent
While you don’t want to be too dependent, you don’t want to be too independent either. Let a man do what he’s been socialized to do: let him open the doors, pull out your seat, walk by the edge of the sidewalk – and all that good, gentlemanly stuff. If you insist on being both the man and the woman in your relationship, you might drive away the men; after all, there wouldn’t be much use for them, now would there?
5. The Psycho
She calls once, twice and 15 million times to see where he is, where he’s going-and by what times of the day: every day. She might as well be his stalker because she also checks all his social media pages, blows up every time a girl says “hi” to him, and threatens to hurt him if he doesn’t give her attention. Uhmmm…she’s the psycho, and she’s definitely on the list of women that men will avoid. If you have her traits, please let go and let God.
6. The Snob
Yes, we all know you’re perfect, but men can detect imperfections in women who claim to know and have it all. Perhaps such women have been influenced by their equally snobby girlfriends, but they’re the ones with snobbish traits that push their potential lovers away. They snicker when presented with handmade, well thought-out gifts, they hold their noses several times a day, and they scorn any man’s ideas they deem less-than-worthy. In short, men can identify them from a distance–and they keep away.
7. The Bore
OMG, if you have nothing else going on for, about, or around you, at least have your character. How many times have you heard a man compliment a female celebrity on her physical assets, but then say in the next breath that they’d pass on her as a long-term lover because she looks so darn boring? Men don’t need you to be an amusement park with boobs, all hours of the day, but they certainly could use some mental stimulation and good conversation, once in a while, believe it or not.
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